Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Clean rep appt
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Monday, June 30, 2008
She's HOME!!!!!!
Dad
Sunday, June 29, 2008
I'm definately on the mend and should be home soon. Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers!
Friday, June 27, 2008
Lots of expletives deleted. Ev has pneumonia. It's the hospital kind that you pick up and then it lies dormant until your immune system takes a hit (like during, say, spinal surgery) and then it wants to come out and play.
She stays until next week (Monday or Tuesday).
#@#$@#$#@$*****
Dad
Cheers,
Dad
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Day two
Hang in there ev. Oh and we finally got super nurse assigned to her. Thanks Lorna!!!
dad
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Coming back through the looking glass
Dr. G started cutting at 2 and folded his scout knife back up at 4ish. Ev is doing ok except for being puffy and very puky. Mitch is engaged in heroic levels of hand holding. Greater love hath no man than when holding his girlfriend's hair mid-puke.
4th floor is nice but the rooms are skinny. I feel in-the-way.
Do I hear a chorus of 'get used to it' from the adult members of the audience? .....
Dad
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
She's here
normal is relative. I forgot to charge this before I left so next update is later. Waiting, then holding, then surgical waiting then recovery, then 4th floor. No icu this time.
Dad
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Oh yeah, June 24th. Less than two weeks people!
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Monday, June 2, 2008
It went well enough though. I got down four and half cups of contrast (they try to be sneaky and call it a berry smoothie.....right....try slightly watery, berry-flavored Elmer's glue). But apparently they wanted it intravenous as well so I got an IV with the wonderful stuff and got very hot. It was somewhat like I would think a hot flash would be like. My eyes burned and my lips tingled. Not to mention the wetting myself sensation. Way fun. But I didn't throw it up and I'm feeling pretty well considering!
Friday, May 23, 2008
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Friday, May 9, 2008
Thursday, May 8, 2008
Ok, so now doctors are saying end of the month for surgery. Ev will likely be coming home sometime this week. We are happy that she'll be home but wearing a back brace for an additional month is a hard pill to swallow. There are (may be) medical reasons but I'm growling because it also might have to do with scheduling conflicts. Harumph.
Dad
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Dr. L has given a thumbs up for back surgery whenever the neuro people can work it out. Could be tomorrow. 'Bout time. Ev's getting bored. Not enough tubes in her life anymore. Food is starting to have flavor. Can't have that.... And stitches. We need more stitches!!
We'll keep everyone posted.
Dad
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Monday, May 5, 2008
I got food! It started with toast and and my jaw didn't quite know what to do but I got the hang of it. I almost didn't believe it when I got chicken for lunch--MEAT--what a concept!
Thank you to all those who have come to visit me. Real faces are much better than 2D tv people. My new room is very......cozy....but feel free to drop by any time!
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Re: Tom
think of her everyday.
L.
bounousb@itsnet.com wrote:
> Hi Lynn,
> Somehow this information didn't get to me till a few days ago, but apparently Tom came in the second or third day to see Ev who was completely sedated. What he found instead was Debbie having a really hard time. She said that he sat with her and comforted her for hours. Tell him thanks.
>
> Ev is doing much better. Labs coming back near normal. Likely they'll move her upstairs soon and then let her come home for a week-ish before spinal surgery. She is eating well and we've got Pizza Hut on speed dial just in case!
>
> Cheers,
> BB
>
>
>
Tom
Somehow this information didn't get to me till a few days ago, but apparently Tom came in the second or third day to see Ev who was completely sedated. What he found instead was Debbie having a really hard time. She said that he sat with her and comforted her for hours. Tell him thanks.
Ev is doing much better. Labs coming back near normal. Likely they'll move her upstairs soon and then let her come home for a week-ish before spinal surgery. She is eating well and we've got Pizza Hut on speed dial just in case!
Cheers,
BB
Friday, May 2, 2008
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Hey I'm alive! So my dad decided it was time I posted something here myself. I can finally think of food without losing what little I have in my stomach. Which is good. So I just have to get well enough to have back surgery then recover from the surgery and then I can go home! Wahoo! I wanted to thank everyone for your love and concern for me. It helps pass the loooooooong hours to know that you care.
We have achieved SOUP!
Go team!
Barry
So yesterday didn't start too well. Ev tried for an hour to drink the contrast but just kept throwing it up (her compliments to the chef..). Finally the CT people agreed to try without. Scans didn't show anything that we know of yet. But for most of the rest of the day she went without both pain and nausea meds. She was perky-er and less nauseated than she has been for weeks. She decided that she wants Cheesy Tomato Soup. She's pestering the doctors. So, I had her sister, Christine, make a mug up and we brought it down to the floor refrigerator as a constant reminder (evil laugh here). This morning the following events occurred: Ev got a real shower, her white count was significantly down, no change on the pancreas readings, eating better , less puky, and dad brought her a 5 pound weight to start her workout routine so she can beat an unnamed someone in arm-wrestle. Whew. It also snowed 14 inches at Snowbird last night. She wants to go skiing.
Cheerier & Cheerier
BB
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Here we go again
Barry Bounous
Tuesday, April 29, 2008
No easy answers yet. Meds are being changed. Ultra sounds, maybe another CT tomorrow. Ev says that if her stomach felt better she would be almost recovered. Could be true. She is debating having the foley bag removed which would be lovely except then she would have to put on her back brace every hour to go potty. Guess I shouldn't complain about my plumbing problems........
BB
Monday, April 28, 2008
Sunday afternoon saw Ev and a whole bunch of friends and family actually outside looking at the flowers and breathing the 'non-hospital air'. Ev & Mich were both in wheel chairs. It was a moment that I naturally failed to record on film. But it was cool. Tracy & Laura Hickman came by and made Ev smile. Tracy still knows how to charm the ladies....
The good news from today is that Ev made 3 laps around the floor. 10 more to go to be back in form. Ev also said that TV ads about food didn't make her want to hurl anymore so either the nausea meds are working or maybe her pancreas is starting to improve. We do need to vary her diet, though. I sneaked in a chocolate cannoli the other day but the nurse caught me. Come on, a cannoli has never hurt anyone!! Cibo degli Angeli! Pannis Angelicus!
Dad
Sunday, April 27, 2008
More thanks
More medical updates. Turns out that in addition to the spinal ligament detaching, the actual bone process that links the vertebrae together have been detached. So spinal surgery is looking inevitable as soon as she is up to it. Got to get the pancreas to behave first. In the meantime has this bionic woman brace that needs to be 'pimped out'. Something in a day glow or metallic pink maybe??
Dad
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Back against the wall
Barry
Working back
Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Friday, April 25, 2008
Sleeping
Btw, did anyone besides me see the fireball about 10:10 pm last night? Greenish, sparky, heading west-ish? Very cool. Lasted 3 to 4 seconds.
Barry Bounous
p.s. I'm in her room. She says she didn't sleep at all and I just helped her throw up again. We're both getting good at that. Doc's gonna try different nausea meds. Fever down, but the nausea is relentless she says. Hard to keep a stiff upper lip these days.
Thursday, April 24, 2008
a bit better
Barry Bounous
She's a bit better today. Heart rate and fever down some and no longer npo. Jogging instead of sprinting and less barfing. No longer wishes she were dead - just elsewhere. Major improvement! (Also no more cath. and the pic line is gone - just a regular IV.)
Less freaked out dad.
A bit better
Some improvement today. Heartrate and fever reduced and no longer npo.
Jogging instead of sprinting. No longer wishes she were dead. Major improvement!
Dr. Dad
For some reason my email updates haven't been going through. Here's what's up:
Bump 2
Still not entirely sure but trauma bob thinks pancreatitis plus a touch of pneumonia. Throwing up loses it's recreational appeal after a half dozen times or so.....
Dad
Big Bump
More of a problem than we'd hoped. No food or water orally for a day or two. Doubled the pain meds and added antibiotics, O2, possible a feeding tube. We were kind of hoping to bring her home this weekend. Nope.
Depressed Dad
Latest as of last night.
Fever and pain getting managed better. Still waiting for test results. She slept. On my way in now.
BB
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
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Still not entirely sure but trauma bob thinks pancreatitis plus a touch of pneumonia. Throwing up loses it's recreational appeal after a half dozen times or so....
dad
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More of a problem than we'd hoped. No food or water orally for a day or two. Double the pain meds and some antibiotics. We were kind of hoping to bring her home this weekend. Nope.
depressed dad
Big bump
depressed dad
Bump2
dad
Bump in the road
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Ev got to play nurse today when friend Mitch had to come back to the hospital for what turned out to be appendicitis. So Mitch & Ev will be back in recovery again. Mitch, all you had to do was ask & you could've seen her anytime. This really wasn't needed. Was it scar envy???
Dad
Monday, April 21, 2008
Still on 'track'
Hoping to get her home soon.
Dad
Sunday, April 20, 2008
EVICTED
p.s. Nosurfgirl wins the pool. The first popsicle was purple (grape-ish).
Dad
EXTRA! New ICU record set!
Proud Dad
Working girl
Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Saturday, April 19, 2008
We have a 'go' for POPCYLES!
Dr. Barry Bounous
Friday, April 18, 2008
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Growth hurts
special thankyous to mitch, courtney, and some unknown great cooks.
Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Breathe
Much, much, happier
Dad.
Grouchy dad's new peeve
Feeling pissyer and pissyer (pissier?)
Dad
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Lung news
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Still crabby though. Note to nurses: When a parent is already feeling impotent, don't take away the little things that they can do to make a difference no matter how small. Even something like reading and signing a stupid form so that their heavily medicated child doesn't have to do it.
[more ranting excised]
So Ev is now in a respiratory therapy mode that makes her feel like a Macey's Thanksgiving Day parade balloon. Extra pressure and hold on the intake. It hurts like hell on those ribs. (sorry but best word I could think of). But doctors think they need to get her off the vent because the vent could be contributing some side effects so they are being aggressive. Hope it works.
Thanks to everyone. Sister Sandberg, you are a fabulous cook. How DOES Steve keep his girlish figure???
BB
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
They are still trying to get her respiration stats up. To help, they pulled her chest tube and a couple other drains to allow more freedom for breathing. It should help eventually but it still hurts. They also have her doing more aggressive physical and respiratory therapy. She's a pooped pup. Everyone all together now: Go EvaLynn Go!!!!!!
BB
Doc names
Dr. Barry Bounous
Brigham Young University
School of Music
KMB 163
(801) 422-3508
Ev is still improving. Likely hood of extubation today about 50-50. The remaining holdup is that cpap respiration is rapid & shallow. They want slow and deep. So today they are pulling her chest tube! (which they say is like having permanent pleurisy.) This should help that remaining parameter.
BTW, the doctors prefer the word "Team". How about enclave? or Swoosh?
Monday, April 14, 2008
Today's highlights
Still looking for the correct zooilogical term for a gathering of doctors. Josh suggest a 'proponderance'....
Any other ideas? A 'quack' perhaps?
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
All signs are very good. We had a huge gaggle (covey, flock...?) of doctors all looking pleased. Many of Evalynn's support and maintence procedures are being scaled back, and **bowel sounds** have been heard!! However, they want to give her one more day post bronchoscopy before pulling the vent tube. So looking for tomorrow for the next step.
Thank you to all posters and commentors. I read your comments and well-wishes to Ev.
Barry
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Extube confirmed
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Big doc says soon!
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
More stuff
Dr. Barry Bounous
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Ev stands
Dr. Barry Bounous
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Choir devotional
I'm watching Ev on byu21 as they rebroadcast the choir devotional. Very pretty - her and music.
Dr. Barry Bounous
bounousb@itsnet.com
Saturday, April 12, 2008
EvaLynn is sleeping better and she is finding a good pattern with her pain meds. Her physical therapy is getting more aggressive - she is 'working out' to Hansen instead of Disney.
I got to see EvaLynn sit up for a minute or so!
Ev got her neckbrace off!
Ev put on her glasses! (and watched a Harry Potter movie). She was able to focus a bit and even surf a little after the movie. We are going to start looking for some kind of Mac laptop that she can use in the hospital. I never thought watching a child channel surf would be so cool.
Mike is home! Mitch has moved to Intermediate Care (& I understand has reserved the room next door for Ev). Hmm. I suppose this situation is somewhat self-chaperoning. Still the nurses shall be alerted.
Communication is improving. Ev can sign (or at least spell in ASL). Everyone in the family can understand except of course me. I'm trying. I have a cheat sheet. And, I did finally figure out that when Ev gets to eat the first thing she wants is a popCICLE and not popCORN. Only took me about 10 minutes.
Friday, April 11, 2008
Change is good. Change is hard. No pain no gain applies to the ICU too. As Ev makes progress and heals, her body complains. A lot. Deep breaths with six broken ribs isn't fun and won't be for a depressingly long time. White count and fever both back down to reasonable levels, and Ev has a new toy - a button to press a few times every hour when things start to really suck. We also learned that pics can be real pickers (70's lingo alert) and that extubation is still 24 + hours away pending better breath signs on the right.
Big thanks to Sue, Suzanne, and Norm. Very generous and loving people. Also, mother bear came out to play yesterday, but we're happy to say she's back in her den. All is safe for UVRMC staff, patients, & visitors.
Thank you everyone. Get well soon Mitch & Mike.
Barry
Thursday, April 10, 2008
EvaLynn has been off sedation for 24 hours and is going to be allowed to try cpap all day. New pain meds cause she doesn't care for morph. Still a few concerns trying to find the reason for spikey fever and rising white count. Fewer tubes! Central and arterial lines coming out and being replaced by a pic. yeah! Speculation that we can extubate in 24-48 hours. And reports of lawyer sightings have been trickling in.
Ev is communicating. Nods, eye rolls, hand waving. Hard to figure out. She has this circular hand wave which, as far as we can tell means: 1) Morphine is making me dizzy, 2) I need to move, 3) my dad is nuts.
Even this late in life, guitars are still cool and still draw people like magnets. Thankyou to John, Gordon, Bob, Marvin, Peter & Paul for giving me lots of things to sing to Ev & the staff.
Barry
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
More weaning from the ventilator. The term is CPAP. She did two hours yesterday pm and another hour this morning. It costs her a bit to do this with six broken ribs. She'd probably rather sleep. They turned off the sedation today and are going to try to leave it off (despite in intubation) if she can tolerate being awake. So she nods, blinks, and squeezes hands as my wife and I try to figure out what she means.
I love tough nurses. Nurse (he can be a jerk if he needs to) Bryan, Lovely (drives 90 miles to get here because this ICU is the best and wears heavy boots to kick people out when needed) Lynette. They are all very very good at their jobs. Today a tough nurse basically told me that I was spoiled. This morning was actually a tough one for Ev. Fever shot up to 39.7 (104-ish), RT was worried about pneumonia (probably not true) and all of this while Ev is crying and coughing through a ventilator. So basically Dad falls apart and has to make mom come down and hold his hand till he gets it together. Not my proudest moment. I'm spoiled because she has been doing so well every day that having a little setback seems like a big freakin' deal. It wasn't. She's fine. It's just that it is so weird to hear someone try to cough through a ventilator. I'm a certified wimp.
Extra extra thanks to friend Courtney who drove from Colorado and who is single-handedly keeping our house from falling apart. Thank you Courtney!
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
Ev got to breath on her own (with a little help) for an hour this morning! She did great! She liked it so much that she'll try again this afternoon.
A few other thoughts: Ev still communicates. I play my guitar and sing to her at night. When she wants me to shut up, she scowls. A critic in a coma. Hmm.
My wife's sister (one of several great sisters) flew in from Colorado to help me on the night shift. She let's me leave (kicks me out) around midnight or 1, and then she stays until 5 am. Aunt Peggy rocks!
Last thought. One of the last things you ever want to see in this world is a scared doctor. I'm ok with serious, intense, casual, even flippant. Scared, though, is really memorable. I saw scared in the eyes and faces of the doctors sprinting my daughter down to the O.R. We got very serious updates all night. The most beautiful thing I've seen lately was the smile on the face of a tall blond OR nurse who came in and said "the doctors are much happier now". She said that when they start talking, smiling, and laughing then you know things are going ok. So give me supercilious, arrogant, pushy, condescending doctors all you want. As long as they don't look scared, I'm ok.
Thanks to a spectacular lactate blood test on Ev's part her surgeon began the process of ventilator withdrawal this morning. It make take a few days still before the tube can be removed and sedation eliminated, but she is breathing under her own volition (with a little help from the machine). Doctors and staff worked on this all night (due in no small part to the instigation of a 'pushy' nurse who didn't shrink from calling the surgeons at home in the wee smalls). They have been super. Other news: we are still not ready for a feeding tube (still more bowel healing needed). And one of Ev's good friends from Colorado is driving in to visit. Maybe a chance that they will actually get to talk in the next couple of days!
from Happy Dad.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Yet another turnaround from the doctors. Superprotective trauma surgeon is pleased with her progress. Will probably sign off on the vent withdrawl process should the next scans support it. Turns out her tummy DID cooperate a little. There should be enough dye for a scan tonight. Keep collective fingers crossed for tomorrow. With luck a feeding tube and the beginning of the end for the ventilator!!!!
Barry Bounous
Sunday, April 6, 2008
The Accident
Ev, Mitch, and Mike were driving back to Provo from Springville, not on the freeway, when another car going south drifted across three traffic lanes and hit them head on, each car going at least 50 mph. The other driver was a 16 yr old boy and the guess is that he fell asleep. The seatbelts caused most of the injuries but if they hadn't been wearing them they'd all be dead. Mike was driving and Mitch and Ev were in the back seat, Mitch behind his brother and Ev in the middle seat. Miracle one: Mitch tells Mike to put on his seatbelt, ten seconds later they crash. Miracle two: the engine went into the passenger's seat where no one was sitting.
Injuries: the seatbelt pushed alot of her lower organs up through her diaphragm into her chest cavity laying heavily on her lungs and heart. She has six broken ribs, a bruised heart, a lacerated liver, a hole in her diaphragm, a ruptured spleen(which has been removed), and she has lost the use of her left kidney.
As for recovery, the doctors don't want Ev to use her diaphragm yet so she is hooked up to a ventilator and is being kept sedated so everything can heal. She is in a lot of pain. They have a high expectancy for a full recovery but it will take months to get there. For now only family is being allowed to see her considering she's not really awake:) I'll let you know when visitors will be allowed but it won't be for a couple of weeks. All we can do now is wait.